I remember what seduction meant to me something like 10 years ago. I only knew 3 different ways to get girls:
That’s right, I used to hang out in the weekend with my friends, join a bar or a club and getting drunk till I got the balls to approach a girl I liked.Getting girls for me was a matter of money for alcohol and find the right bar.
After a long time that I’m teaching pickup, I classified the reason my students give me, cause they don’t have a good dating like.
What I learnt through the years is that if you get the confidence and the right knowledge, you can seduce a girl in whatever situation you are, however you look like.
You don’t need to be in the right place. You don’t need to have the right cocktail. And you don’t need to have the right clothes, grooming, beauty genes, bank account…
Ok, you think I’m delusional.
For a matter of privacy I can’t show you his picture, but the best ladies man I’ve ever known was a normal looking guy, shorter than average, with a arguable fashion taste and with no money in his bank account.
I hanged out with him for around 1 year and I’ve seen him getting girls who were definitely out of his league.
He showed me that if you’re confident in your capacities, and you know how female psychology works, there is nothing that can stop you from getting the dating life you dream about.
I was shy, introverted and desperate. I lived in a constant anxiety, a sense of inadequacy, not just with girls.
Sure, with girls it was even worse, feeling worthless and totally inadequate.
I was a perfect carrier of what I call “the snowflake syndrome”: thinking to be the worse of the worse, the lost case, the one who had no hope to be like all the other, perfectly functional, human beings.
In my career I met guys way worse than I was. Guys who couldn't even look me in the eyes, guys who couldn't stop shaking in social interactions, guys who stuttered every sentence they said...I saw all of them change in front of my eyes, and all of them used seduction to heal.
Of course it wasn't an easy process. It was tough, and painful, and unpleasant. All of them sooner or later wanted to quit.
But when you hit rock bottom, you suddenly find a motivation you didn't think you had, and you do what you need to do.
For years, my life was driven by fear. All of my actions were based on avoidance, procrastination, and insecurity.
I decided that I deserved to have a rich life, a life worth to be lived. I knew what I wanted and I made it my biggest goal.
I've dedicated the last 10 years studying seduction in every form, using and testing any approach possible. In this long journey I met girls in street, public transportation, museums, bars, clubs, Tinder, dating websites…
I got a ton of experience and I realised what you should realise too.
That’s it’s not about external factors if you get the girl or not.
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He spent almost 5 years reading, researching, interviewing and experimenting on sexually satisfying women. He conducted 264 formal recorded interviews to women about what they enjoy in sex.